Busting 10 common sex myths in 2025. Learn the truth about pleasure, consent, STIs, and intimacy so you can enjoy safer, healthier sex.
Introduction
Sex is surrounded by stories, “advice,” and myths that just won’t die. Unfortunately, many of these misconceptions can lead to confusion, anxiety, or even unsafe practices. In 2025, it’s time to clear the air and separate fact from fiction. Here are 10 of the most common sex myths—and the truth you need to know.
Myth 1: Bigger = Better
This one tops almost every list. Many believe size automatically means better pleasure. The truth? Pleasure is about comfort, connection, and technique, not size. Emotional intimacy, communication, and knowing what you (and your partner) like matter far more than inches.
Myth 2: Women Don’t Enjoy Sex as Much as Men
This outdated stereotype has caused a lot of harm. Research consistently shows that women enjoy sex just as much as men when their needs are understood and met. The problem isn’t biology—it’s often lack of communication, stigma, or pressure.
Myth 3: You Can’t Get Pregnant on Your Period
False. While the chances are lower, pregnancy during menstruation is possible—especially if cycles are irregular or ovulation happens earlier than expected. Using contraception is the only way to stay safe.
Myth 4: Men Always Want Sex
Another stereotype. Men, like women, have fluctuations in desire depending on stress, health, mood, and relationship dynamics. Libido is human, not gendered.
Myth 5: Lube Is Only for “Older People”
Nope! Lube is for everyone. It reduces friction, increases pleasure, and prevents pain or irritation. Many couples (and solo players) use it to make sex smoother and more enjoyable.
Myth 6: Porn = Sex Education
Porn is entertainment—not education. It often portrays unrealistic bodies, expectations, and performances. Real sex is about consent, communication, and authenticity. Use porn as fantasy if you wish, but don’t treat it as a guidebook.
Myth 7: You Can’t Get STIs from Oral Sex
Wrong. Oral sex can transmit STIs like herpes, HPV, gonorrhea, and chlamydia. Using condoms, dental dams, and regular testing are important parts of safer sex practices.
Myth 8: Good Sex Means Simultaneous Orgasms
Movies love to show “the perfect moment” where both partners climax together. Reality? It’s rare. Good sex isn’t about synchronization, it’s about satisfaction—whether orgasms happen together or separately.
Myth 9: Only “Promiscuous” People Get STIs
Completely false. Anyone who is sexually active can get an STI—even if you’ve only had one partner. What matters is testing, communication, and using protection, not the number of partners.
Myth 10: Talking About Sex Ruins the Mood
In fact, the opposite is true. Open, respectful communication builds trust and makes sex better. Consent, preferences, and feedback are sexy—not mood killers.
Final Thoughts
Believing sex myths can hold you back from safe, satisfying, and fulfilling intimacy. The truth is: communication, consent, and comfort are what really matter.
If you want to dive deeper into intimacy, consent, and relationship advice, check out our other guides here on Slaytease.
